Homeless Man Wants More Than Food on Thanksgiving, He Wants a Family – and Places an Ad
A deluge of love and compassion has reached a 54-year-old homeless man who had the courage to put into action the Christian tenet, “Ask, and it is given.”
Neil Shytles posted an ad on the Facebook pages of local television stations around his hometown of Virginia Beach asking for someone to invite him for Thanksgiving dinner.
I was very alone last Thanksgiving and really would not like to go throughout that this Thanksgiving… PLEASE, if you have room in your home and in your heart to share your Thanksgiving, I not only (would) be thankful, but would also consider myself blessed to spend this time with you.
Shytles has lived in the Norfolk, Virginia Union Mission shelter for a year. He pays a small amount of rent from his monthly social security check, according to WTKR-News Channel 3, who interviewed him on Tuesday about the ad.
Even before Channel 3 aired the full report Tuesday evening, he began receiving offers from viewers volunteering to adopt him for the day.
The very first call he got came from a young military family, The Maclemores from Newport News, 30 miles away. They offered to pick him up, and said that another military couple with children would also be coming, fulfilling his wish for a “family atmosphere” at the table.
“The girl is a sweetheart,” he said of Mrs. Maclemore, who called the mission and spoke with Neil Tuesday morning. “I’ve been so blessed. I love the people here at the Christian mission, but I just wanted a home to go to.”
Both the mission and the television station were flooded with calls following the story that aired later that day.
Invitations Flooded In
“I’d like to donate a turkey and corn and potatoes to whoever takes him in, wrote Tanner Doerr on WTKR’s Facebook page.
Shay Shannon Blankenship from Chesterfield, VA, wrote, “For the wonderful man that wants family for the holidays: I’m in Chesterfield, and I’m willing to pick him up on Wednesday and he can hang out for thanksgiving with my family for a day or two. And then I will return him to where he stays. How do I reach him?”
“I want to send him a Christmas package,” commented Joe Walls.
A television station in Ohio said they would send a care package, and had set up a fund for him that people were already donating to.
Neil is trying to take it all in stride, but told the Good News Network, “I cried all day yesterday. I’m a big guy, but then the reporters were reading all the letters to me that they’d gotten.”
“Sometimes you don’t see the hearts of people until something like this happens,” he said after a long pause. “People do have big hearts.”
In a sense Neil has become the new face of homelessness for the many thousands of people around the country who have seen his story. He received a lot of offers from Wisconsin. A man in Sioux Falls, South Dakota offered to fly in Neil for the holiday and a family in Arkansas who owns a trucking company even offered to have their truckers pick him up and bring him back again. But, Neil, who has not traveled outside of his state except to DC, said he was already committed to the Maclemores. “Maybe Christmas!” they responded.
Neil hopes he can get some of the other guys from the mission placed with a family. “I know they are responsible.”
“Last night, Paul, who works here but is also homeless, said, ‘Oh my gosh, that is such a good idea. I wish I would have thought of it.'”
Perhaps Neil’s story has planted seeds for the future, like when Kimberly Kelly posted at WTKR, “I’m starting a program called Home for the Holiday in the Charlottesville area to help others get adopted! I would love this program to spread.”
As often happens when stories of homeless people go nation, two of Neil’s relatives contacted him.
“My cousin saw it in south carolina, and they got kinda mad because I never told them my situation. they saw it and said, ‘Why didn’t you tell us about what was going on?’ It was really important to me that someone who is actually family, showed me they cared. They were really upset. They asked me if I needed anything.”
“I texted my best friend who lives in Detroit, telling him about the media reports. He said, ‘See, people do want to help. All you have to do is ask.'”
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